so im working on a project with a friend , i want the database to be synced between us ,
so is there a way for both of us to work on the same database without the need of it being in a server ,
does that make since ,i know azure is an option , but what other ways to do it
Tailscale
Low-hassle VPN setup and they can access your network.
Recommend you host SQL and Tailscale inside of a VM, no matter how much you trust your friend.
Set up VPN and allow friend to connect to your network. Everything else is huge security issue.
You could start with Teamviewer VPN and then google for something else, like OpenVPN.